I started calling him, over and over... he would'nt answer and I became stressed. Then I had an epiphany.
Am I Co-Dependent?
Couldnt be!
Then I googled it.
What are some of the symptoms of Co-Dependent People?
- controlling behavior
- distrust
- perfectionism
avoidance of feelings{not so much!}- intimacy problems
- caretaking behavior
hypervigilancephysical illness related to stress
After reading the "symptoms" I realized I had a few.
I am Co-Dependent!
Here I thought all this time I was just so IN-Dependent! Guess not.
I really hate being put in a box. Not my style. And labels... well, we could all find a few.
I am positive that I will conquer my Co-Dependent traits. I refrained from calling my hubby again after reading this. I realized I was being controlling.
I need to let GOD be in control, and take a seat behind him.
I need to TRUST him more.
So. Im off on my Non-Co-Dependent journey.
1 comment:
YES I am a co-dependent too. I think after so many years it is hard not to be. SOme of the definitions are a bit scary though and I don't think they exactly describe my co dependency....uh maybe we should ask the hubby. ha
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